Saturday, March 28, 2020

October 28-November 5 Dave's mom's visit

Oct 28-Nov 5
Dave’s mom was able to spend a week with us in Georgia.  We had to put away our projects for the week, especially because we needed the dinette table for her bed.  She was greeted on our dock by a visiting manatee. 

 
After arriving, Alice and I and our friend, Pati, went on a hunt for simple Halloween costumes.  We went to the GoodWill store and our storage unit.  Pati and I put together a few things.  I just used the Mardi Gras colors with a jester’s hat to represent our boat “Luck of a Fool”.  We ended up dressing Alice in a mix of the pirate costumes that Dave and I had in storage.  She looked great!!
enjoying happy hour.  Becky fell in love with Alice
On Halloween, we decorated our dock and cut pumpkins with other people on our dock.  We have a 10 year old boy, Jacob, that Dave likes to tease.  There are about a dozen kids on boats here at this time.  They walked from dock to dock trick or treating.  Anyone from our dock that wanted to participate was at the top of the dock.  Much safer than trying to go from boat to boat. 

 
 
 
 
The marina throws a Halloween party for us.  They provide pizza, beer, wine and punch.  Others bring something to share.  Dave and Pete had been planning their costume for over a month.  They were in the running for the best costume.  Somehow, they came up with the idea to both be cupid.  They bought wings and the bow and arrows online.  I found a sheet at Good Will that they cut in half and designed the “diaper” for the rest of the costume.  They were a hit. 




Cupid and Cupider
Pati and Fred

Rob and Becky



 
Friday, November 1
Dave, Alice, Pete and I went on a seafood tour of the low country near Brunswick, GA.  We went to our favorite spots for oysters, shrimp, clams and more oysters.  We added alligator bites and a couple desserts to top off the day.
 





 
oysters upon oysters


Saturday, November 2
The four of us went to Woodbine, GA with 2 other couples from the marina.  We had dinner at Captain Stan’s, known for their ribs.  And then we went to the Woodbine Opry.  Every Saturday night, retired professional musicians play old country western music.  Alice loved it!  We all had a great time.




 Sunday, November 3
Alice joined me at church and sang in the choir.  She had met our priest, Father Tim, on the airplane from Atlanta to Brunswick.  He was so glad to said hello after mass.
We had a lazy day watching the Vikings vs the Packers football game at the clubhouse.





Monday, November 4
We took advantage of the beautiful weather and went for a dinghy ride today.
 

 
 
Tuesday, November 5
The week flew by and Alice headed back home today.  She really enjoys her visits to the boat and the marina.
 

October 1-27, 2019 Boat projects with Sailrite sewing machine

We spent October doing routine health care between medical doctors and dentists.  That even included a trip to Dublin, GA for a VA appointment for Dave. 
the after glow of our sunset
Pete and I spent a tourist day out on Jekyll Island.  It was his first time there.  It is always so peaceful to be near the water.  We enjoyed a hike on Driftwood Beach and a drink and appetizer at Tortuga Jacks.  It was great to sit outside and stare at the water.

 
Ongoing boat projects mostly revolved around sewing.  Dave took the chaps from our old dingy and remade them to fit our new dinghy.  He has also been working on replacing our Bimini and dodger.  That involved lots of “how to” videos from Sailrite, our sewing machine company.  They have great tutorials.  Dave had to measure everything using the bows we already have.  You can’t just use the old one as a template, because they stretch over time. 
Then he made patterns for each piece with plastic.  He used a long counter in the yacht club to roll out the cloth and cut his patterns.  Then the sewing could begin.  He spent a lot of time at our dinette table sewing.  I eventually started calling him Motel Kamzoil from Fiddler on the Roof. 

 

 
Dave also took time to dive the Hull.  He checks the zincs periodically, since there is a lot of stray current in marinas.
 

We researched and bought a new mattress for our bed in the v-berth.  Of course, it had to be cut to fit the area.  What a mess!!


September 18-30, 2019 Mary's South Dakota adventure

Wednesday, September 18-I flew to Sioux Falls, SD to attend a 45 year high school reunion in Miller, SD.  Before leaving Sioux Falls, I visited a dear friend in the hospital.  Sheryl Gerdes Bedard and I have been friends since first grade.  She had hernia surgery on the 16th. 
Thurdsay-I rode to Highmore, SD with another grade school friend, Lori Landgrebe Schneller.  We spent the night with her sister, Jody Landgrebe. 
Friday- homecoming weekend.  We helped finish decorating our class float and greeted classmates.  We were in the homecoming parade that afternoon.  Then we spent the evening at the football game and socializing with classmates.
On Saturday, our class had a catered banquet at the Firehall.







 

On Sunday, I went to church at St Ann’s Catholic Church.  I grew up in this parish and was married here.  They had just finished a new community center that was connected to the front of the church and had an open house after mass.  It was nice to be able to visit with more friends and family.  The old center was not connected to the church.  On the night before my wedding, December 17, 1977, it rained and then snowed.  I dressed in the center, but had to go the the church via a sidewalk covered in ice .  I picked up my dress and 2 people slid me down the sidewalk to the church.  Thank goodness the buildings are now connected.

Me with Lori and her mother, Bernita

the addition connected to the church at St Anne's Catholic Church in Miller

the original exterior doors

the hallway connecting the church to the addition
kind of sobering to see this at the Catholic cemetery in Miller
the house I grew up in Miller


we stopped at the Porter sculptures along Interstate 90 on the way home
 On our drive back to Sioux Falls, I chipped an upper right molar on popcorn.  On Monday, I decided I should chew on it to see if it needed attention.  After lunch, the porcelain crown on a lower right molar broke in half.  I called around and found a dentist still practicing that remembered me and had time to temporize my tooth, Dr. Dwight Louden.  I had worked in his father’s orthodontic practice as a dental assistant in the mid 70’s, so we always visited at dental conventions.  As my father would have said “good old American know WHO”.
I planned to stay in Sioux Falls a little longer to help Sheryl in her home after surgery.  On Sept 24, she was moved to a nursing home for rehab.  I helped move all of her belongings and get her settled. 
On Sept 25, I had lunch with a Ski for Light friend, Kylie Forth, from Australia.  She had been in Canada for the World Blind Sailing competition and extended her stay in Sioux Falls to see other Ski for Light friends.  She took first place in her division!  I was the first person she had visited with that knew anything about sailing.  I really enjoyed hearing about the competition, and she enjoyed sharing.


Sept 26 Thursday
I road with Lori Landgrebe Schneller to the Black Hills today.  She was going there for the weekend for the annual buffalo round up.  Since Sheryl was in a rehab facility, I decided to see friends there.
We met her sister, Jody, from Highmore, SD at a restaurant so Lori could go on to Custer with her.  I was able to keep her car for the weekend.
I met friends at one of the local breweries.  Their runner’s club meets there on Thursday nights.
Sept 27 Friday
I was able to have coffee with my usual coffee friends on Friday morning at Black Hills Bagels.  Always fun to see all of them.  Next I drove to the KOA in Rapid City to see a dental school classmate of mine.  Diane Zimmerman Schad was there with her husband, Mike.  Their son is attending SD School of Mines and Technology.  Great to catch up with each other’s lives.

I had lunch with my Rapid City friend, Cheryl Ulmer.  She no longer lives in Rapid City, but was here between jobs as crew on sailboats.  She usually spends the summer in SD seeing friends and family.  Nice coincidence to be here at the same time.  I stayed with long time friends, John and Tami Petersen.
Sept 28 Saturday
A Ski for Lighter from Chicago was in town.  So there was and impromptu meeting of about 12 other Ski for Lighters at the Wobbly Bobby about noon Saturday.  Fun to surprise them and visit.
On Saturday afternoon, I drove to Custer to meet up with Lori and her family.  I hadn’t seen her brother Dave, his wife Diana and her sister Susan for some time.  The girls moved on to another venue for dinner, the Custer Beacon.  We met up with my friend, Lorraine Himrich, and enjoyed some country western music.  John and Tami Petersen joined us, too.  We even ended up dancing with a few locals.  We stayed in Custer for the night.

Sept 29 Sunday
I had breakfast in Custer with Lorraine Himrich and a friend of hers I had met years ago, Margaret ??
Lori and I drove back to Sioux Falls that afternoon.
Sept 30 Monday
Sheryl had ended up back in the hospital over the weekend.  I went to the rehab center and picked up her belongings. 
Sept 30 Monday
I had Uber pick me up about 4:30 am to fly back to GA today. 

September 7-17, 2019 Readjusting to life on the boat

We picked up a rental car and started getting our life back in order.  On Monday 9-9, we were running errands.  After the fourth stop, we noticed damage to the passenger side front door of the rental car, as if someone had tried to pry it open.  We reported it to Enterprise.  We assumed it was done the night before, not in broad daylight.  When we filed a police report, they said it happens all the time in broad daylight.  I had left my purse on the floor of the passenger seat, so that made sense.  The place that we noticed the damage had a security camera, and we were parked right by it.  They checked and didn’t see anyone approach the car while it was there.  So lesson learned.  Don’t leave a purse in sight even during the day.
We found a car for Pete at the marina.  Friends on our dock had a 2002 Kia Sportage that Pete bought.  Yippee!  Now we can use it, too. 
yeah! the boat survived another hurricane
pulled the Kube game out of storage to play at the marina

nice welcome back


September 4-6, 2019 Atlanta hurricane evacuation

Wednesday-We spent the next couple days in Atlanta waiting for hurricane Dorian to pass and the evacuation of Glynn county to be lifted.  Spent the day making phone calls and hanging out.
 



no cribbage board?  keep score on paper
Thursday- we picked up a rental car.  Pete and I went to downtown Atlanta and visited the Coca Cola museum.  It was interesting to see the history.  There were theaters showing commercials from around the world, etc.  I thought it will take days to get that damn 70’s song out of my head.  “I’d like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony”.  There, now any reader will suffer that, too.  You’re welcome.   There was a room full of soda fountains with coca cola products from around the world.  Each station was from a different country or part of the world with several options to try.  Our favorite was a cucumber sprite from Russia.




 

We met our friend, Deb Louchart, at the Louisiana Bistreaux for dinner.

 
 Friday- After breakfast at a local diner, Thumbs Up, we returned the rental car and headed to the airport.  Finally made it back to Brunswick, GA
Mary with Beverly and Ralph Brogdon from out marina at the airport